NOBODY WANTS TO BE LONELY
1. Put your music on shuffle.
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer.
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS!
4. Tag at least 10 friends who might enjoy doing the memo as well as the person you got the memo from.
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IF SOMEONE SAYS “IS THIS OKAY” YOU SAY?
tambourine - eve
ever ever after - carrie underwood
WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL?
real to me - bryan mcfadden
kepompong - sinden tosca
WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO?
all i know - 5ive for fighting
WHAT IS YOUR LIFE’S PURPOSE?
iris - goo goo dolls
before it’s too late - goo goo dolls
WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN?
milkshake - kelis
ancora - neri per caso
WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
please Mr. Postman - the carpenters
could it be any harder? - the calling
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?
numb / encore - linkin park & jay z
WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL?
that’s the way it is - celine dion
WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING?
realize - colbie caillat
WHAT DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU LIKE?
bukan superstar - project pop
summer - india arie
i’m yours - jason mraz
you are loved - josh groban
private party - india arie
WHAT MAKES YOU CRY?
atlantis princess - BoA
WHAT MAKES YOU LAUGH?
change - sugababes
WHAT IS THE ONE THING YOU REGRET?
SOS - ABBA
WILL YOU EVER GET MARRIED?
all my life - k.ci ?& jojo
flying without wings - westlife
living - india arie
IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME, WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE?
some hearts - carie underwood
(*aihh…. pas bgt….)
nobody wants to be lonely - ricky martin
bingung tingkat tinggi
haaaaaaaaa………………… da lama ga nyentuh dunia per-friendster-an… kuangeennn……….. sempet beralih ke blogspot (*maaf ya! abis klo blogspot bs lgsg upload foto dr handphone!! :P)
sls bsk sidang… sm nunung…. gosh… takut stgh mati…. klo minjem istilah kiko, nangis kijing deh…
uda pgn nangis dr pas dikasi tau sm freddy pengujinya dy…. tmbh lg kmrn ngadep si bapak, dsuru cari fenomena fatual dr perush sampel, yg blom ktm jg smpe skrg… gmn donk niii……
blom jg bljr bhan2 laennya… adduuuuuu…………… gmn ga mo nangis cb… ini uda hr kmis… TUHAN……………………………………………………………..
nulis dsini, lg terinspirasi liat blog fs-nya dave… (*jadi malu!! msa kalah rajin nulis blogs sm cwo?? bner2 bkin malu!! :p)
VERY FUNNY EMAIL…. HAHAHA…
Here are five questions you must ask yourself, if you’re serious about finding and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose?
Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you’re married for 20 or 30 years, that’s a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together?
You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.
Two things can happen in a marriage:
(1) You can grow together, or
(2) you can grow apart.
50% of the people out there are growing apart.
To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!
Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.
QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?
This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person.
The basis of having good communication is trust i.e. trust that I won’t get ‘punished‘; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.
A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one.
Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.
QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch?
A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions.
Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about
improving themselves?
A teacher of mine defines a good person as ’someone who is always striving
to be good and do the right’.
So ask about your significant other: What do they do with their time? Is
this person materialistic?
Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is
character refinement.
There are essentially two types of people in the world:
(1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and
(2) people who are dedicated to seeking comfort.
Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing.
You need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people?
The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give.
By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.
Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self’s absorbed?
To measure this, think about the following:
* How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc..
* How do they treat their parents and siblings?
* Do they have gratitude and appreciation?
If they don’t have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them?
You can be sure that someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.
QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I’m hoping to change about this person
after we’re married?
Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to ‘improve’; them after they’re married.
As a colleague of mine puts it: ‘You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse’
If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn’t have to be difficult and treacherous.
The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart.
It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.
Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don’t want to find yourself trouble because you didn’t do your homework.
Another perspective…
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance..
It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going anywhere relationships.
Observe the relationships around you.
Pay attention…Which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones don’t appreciate you?
Which ones make you feel good, praises you, boosts you with loving and caring words or annotations?
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you…
the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
An African proverb states, ‘Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye’;
Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don’t let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self esteem make you blind to warning signs.
Keep your eyes open, and don’t fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren’t really that important.
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can’t take someone to the altar to alter them.
You can’t make someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and ‘a life’; you won’t
find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or
responsible for your pain.
Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a
relationship.
WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:
1. TRUST
2. COMMUNICATION
3. INTIMACY
4. A SENSE OF HUMOR
5. SHARING TASKS
6. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)
7. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS
8. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE
9.GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT
10. CONCERN AND CARE FOR YOUR LOVER IN YOUR OWN WAYS.
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment
buat yg percaya…
semoga semua org inget dgn karma-nya masing2… krn g amat sangat prcy dgn adanya blesan dr Tuhan… semoga karma ga berbalik sm dia, karena uda berbuat jhat sm org yg sm sekali ga slah n ga tau apa2…
semoga bila bnar adanya reinkarnasi, qta tidak akan pernah bertemu di kesempatan lain itu…
semoga bila ada keturunannya yg berjenis kelamin sm dgn gw, dia ga akan ngerasain gmn sakitnya en ngalamin hal yg sm ky gw… dan semoga dy ga akan disakitin oleh lawan jenis yg berasal dari keturunan gw…
entah ini sungguh harapan “semoga” atau kutukan…
sorry, i choose to be cruel this time… i mean it…
my man.
iron man..
human torch..
superman..
batman..
but not spiderman please,,, please please please….
hancock is cool…
ethan hunt either…
james bond…
hulk not bad…
and also edward cullen…
save me!! save my life!!
x’maz present
i’ve already got my christmas present today…
hmm, 1 week before x’mas literally…
and i’m really really really really happy…
no need another present,, i just want this…
one paper stick on a board at my campuss, with my name on it…
Pengumuman Proposal Skripsi Minggu ke-1 Desember 2008 jurusan Akuntansi
DITERIMA
8. Octavia Witrahno. Pembimbing : Bapak Carmel Meiden.
good, better?! i’m in best!! =)
noo… no complain again den…. many good news at this time… hehe…
hmm… 1st thing… my mid-term test already gone… yuhuu…. “comme ci, comme ca“… -> not too good, but not so bad…
2nd things… enjoying my time watch TWILIGHT with my friends at first day out.. (i called it premiere, but not Premiere Studio at PS, PI, Sency, or EX) hehe… my habit.. must see movie in theater at the first day they’re coming out.. Edward Cullen is cool. especially in part when he was fly!! wuu.. i want it.. =p others, there’s a long time i didn’t have fun with my guyz!! and i’ve missed it so much…
3rd things… i’ve already give my “proposal skrip” to campuss… haa, finally… now just can wait for the result… accepting or rejecting… huwahh… but for now, i can take a deep-deeepp breathe (just for a while)…
4th things… my trip at Lampung to attended my cousin’s wedding.. i enjoy it, so0o much… hehehe… no traffic jam, nice people, good service from family there, handsome mEn ( why? am i wrong? of course not.. say to me, who can refuse a nice view like many cool men in front of u, beside u, and behind u?? no one, i think!! and for me, i’m never pretend that i don’t like it… hahaha…) just for example:
=p BIG SMILE … ^v^
5th things… i already passed my internship-session (sidang magang)…!! fiyuhh.. feel so0o FREE… i’m free, i’m free, i’m free like a bird, freedom in my hand… so, start from now, say a-very-happy-GOOD-BYE to all the stuff called “internship”… some photos from me n friends….
so, the conclusion is… i think i don’t have any load in my shoulder… in my hand… i can see the blue sky up there clearly… i can hear voices of waves upon the sea… halahh… hahaha… enough2.. have a nive day!! smile alwayz… que dieu vous benisse… =)
random minds….
sy yg br sminggu diem di rumah aja uda ngerasa bosen bgt gini, apalgi mama yg TIAP HARI di rumah trs??? ga pernah ikutan pegi pula klo qta2 pd pegi… huwaaa…… ga abis pikir….
dollar makin turunn…. gimana dengan nasib “rencana2″-ku nantinya?? mana sangguppp…. duhh… moga2 taon depan da back to normal… plizz…. reksadana sy aj turun abisss….. bnr2 abis.. parah bgt!!
bosen bosen bosenn…..!!! pengen pergi!! ga mo ujian, skripsi andd all the stuff things… bnr2 butuh hal “gila”… gila2an di mall… pergi kmn gt… foto2an… apapun deh…. *CHO0O….!!!! AYO0O…..!!!! KPN????! JGN MOOD2AN AJA LUU….!! HUHUHU… HUUHHH!!* ^o^ g bosen beratt…. ujian, les, brevet…. arrgghhh…!!
pengen es-krim ‘A&W’… pengen santai sore ‘pizza hut’… mo nyobain ‘domino pizza’… pgn kwetiauw sirem….
denny… where r u…. sombongnya yg lg magang… sibuk pisan euyy….
handy… congratz yg br lulus sidang thesis S2-nya… moga2 nov taon dpn g da bs pke toga… =)
skripsi.. oh no0o… knp proposal aj da mampet2 gini,,,
uts… apalagi…. spm…. tidakkk….!!! takut bgt d sm itu!! bnyk bgt, close book pula!! spa sm akin jg si… open book jg bner2 ga nolong sm sekl….
ga nyambung… ini smua bnr2 ga nyambung… =( bnr2 random minds…
kacau!!!
DAMN…. bner kan… ga tau knp, dr kmrn tu feeling da ga enak… dr pas sblm mo tdr mlm, feeling da ga enak… ternyata….. kejadian buruknya hari ini!!! AARRGGHH….
1. Uda repot2 bawa laporan magang (dijaga bener2 n ati2 jgn mpe rusak), secara noh amplop yg dr kantor ukurannya agak ga biasa gt… lebih besar dr ukuran std…
hasil -> BAAK-nya UDA TUTUP!!
try to pos-ting-nya : ya emang si dtg uda diatas jam kerja.. smpe kmps br jam stngh 6.. org2 kan pd mo pulang jugaa…. =(
2. Uda cape2 bawa buku brevet… bawa 3 malah tepatnya… abis dosen ga jls sapa yg dtg.. jd uda bw 2 tu.. tmbh 1 lg buku pinjeman punya yuli…
hasil -> KELAS BREVETNYA GAK ADA!!
try to pos-ting-nya : ya emang si pas org omni-nya nelp ke hp, tu telp ga ke-angkat.. sblm jln jg ga ga nelp balik ksana pula.. br tau pas uda lg di jln…
3. UNTUNGNYA…. ke kampus dgn tujuan mo ketemu Titin ambil kopian Bhs Indo, en janjian sm Winda liat tas jualannya MASIH BISA KETEMU… Klsny yg diperkirakan bubar cpet, trnyt smp kmps msh blom kluar…
4. Trus, uda bw laptop berat2 dgn tujuan mo update antivirus, untungnya WIFI BISA BERHASIL JALAN DENGAN SUKSES!!
++ ada yg ditelp ga bisa
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pokoknya hr ini judulnya:
bingung.
sbnrnya uda dr kmrn jg sih bingungnya.
tp br skrg aj pgn bgt nulis, abis….. huh!! gt deh..
bingung mo crita sm siapa.
bingung mo tuker pikiran sm sapa.
bingung knp jg jd mkir bgini.
bingung jg knp msti dipkirin??
bingung apa yg mesti dipikirin??
bingung knp orang2 pd bgitu.
bingung kpn mo dtg ke kmps lg buat ngumpulin laporan magang yg uda jd.
bingung sabtu besok mo ujian naek tingkat perancis.
bingung minggu mau ngelabuh abunya si john
bingung ujian brevet kpn ga jls gt.
bingung bakalan bs brentrok sm uts jg.
bingung knp g ga jg mulai ngetik n bikin proposal skripsi.
bingung knp jg g ga mulai belajar, mlah chatting en ol dpn inet trs…??!
bingung ah. bingung deh pokoknya!!
